“We must take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. Sometimes we must interfere. When human lives are endangered, when human dignity is in jeopardy, national borders and sensitivities become irrelevant. Wherever men and women are persecuted because of their race, religion, or political views, that place must - at that moment - become the center of the universe.”
One of the most influential books that I’ve ever read was written by him. This quote, like many other excerpts from Night, helps shed light on so many important topics of experience and existence.
“I actually attack the concept of happiness. The idea that - I don’t mind people being happy - but the idea that everything we do is part of the pursuit of happiness seems to me a really dangerous idea and has led to a contemporary disease in Western society, which is fear of sadness. It’s a really odd thing that we’re now seeing people saying “write down 3 things that made you happy today before you go to sleep”, and “cheer up” and “happiness is our birthright” and so on. We’re kind of teaching our kids that happiness is the default position - it’s rubbish. Wholeness is what we ought to be striving for and part of that is sadness, disappointment, frustration, failure; all of those things which make us who we are. Happiness and victory and fulfillment are nice little things that also happen to us, but they don’t teach us much. Everyone says we grow through pain and then as soon as they experience pain they say “Quick! Move on! Cheer up!” I’d like just for a year to have a moratorium on the word “happiness” and to replace it with the word “wholeness”. Ask yourself “is this contributing to my wholeness?” and if you’re having a bad day, it is.”
This quote could change someone’s life.
i. agree. with. every. word.(via avoidingtheinevitable)
“It’s not our job to toughen our children up to face a cruel and heartless world. It’s our job to raise children who will make the world a little less cruel and heartless.”
One of the things that I love most about music is how it can transcend the barriers that silence us. Previously unspoken words are communicated, emotions are felt and expressed, and evocative melodies bring about understanding.
This song and video speak loudly about the tragedy that happened at SPU a month ago. Bigger than that, it speaks to the ups and downs that accompany unexpected changes in life and the ways in which we deal with those changes. This video features Natalie, a girl that I met a few years ago while I was visiting one of my most cherished friends, Barrett, at SPU. She is the beautiful, free-spirited, passionate girl with blue hair.
I hope that after watching this, you read the article that follows this video. I am so grateful for this - for the people that agreed to be filmed during such honest, vulnerable, difficult moments. Their individual experiences are powerfully expressed and projected onto those who are seeing them - something that I think offers a connection between them and us. I wholeheartedly believe that our losses are collective and our human experiences are connected.
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My favorite line from the song, Elysium:: Don’t let bitterness become you
let it go – the
smashed word broken
open vow or
the oath cracked length
wise – let it go it
was sworn to
let them go – the
truthful liars and
the false fair friends
and the boths and
neithers – you must let them go they
let all go – the
big small middling
tall bigger really
the biggest and all
things – let all go
so comes love